Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren;
The elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity.
Honour widows that are widows indeed.
But if any widow have children or nephews, let them learn first to shew piety at home , and to requite their parents: for that is good and acceptable before God.
References for 1 Timothy 5:4
Now she that is a widow indeed, and desolate , trusteth in God, and continueth in supplications and prayers night and day.
But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth .