Ben Sira 33:20

20 As long as you have breath in your body, don't let anyone lead your life for you.

Ben Sira 33:20 In-Context

18 Listen to me, all you great leaders! All you leaders of the assemblies, hear what I have to say!
19 Never, as long as you live, give anyone power over you - whether son, wife, brother, or friend. Don't give your property to anyone; you might change your mind and have to ask for it back.
20 As long as you have breath in your body, don't let anyone lead your life for you.
21 It is better that your children be dependent on you than the other way around.
22 Keep control over all that you do; don't let anything stain your reputation.
Scripture taken from the Good News Translation - Second Edition, Copyright 1992 by American Bible Society. Used by Permission.