Ben Sira 33:21

21 It is better that your children be dependent on you than the other way around.

Ben Sira 33:21 In-Context

19 Never, as long as you live, give anyone power over you - whether son, wife, brother, or friend. Don't give your property to anyone; you might change your mind and have to ask for it back.

20 As long as you have breath in your body, don't let anyone lead your life for you.

21 It is better that your children be dependent on you than the other way around.

22 Keep control over all that you do; don't let anything stain your reputation.

23 Wait until the last moment of your life, when you are breathing your last, and then divide your property among your heirs.