Proverbs 5

Pitfalls of Immorality

1 My son, 1give attention to my wisdom, 2Incline your ear to my understanding;
2 That you may 3observe discretion And your 4lips may reserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of an 5adulteress 6drip honey And 7smoother than oil is her speech;
4 But in the end she is 8bitter as wormwood, 9Sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet 10go down to death, Her steps take hold of Sheol.
6 She does not ponder the 11path of life; Her ways are 12unstable, she 13does not know it.
7 14Now then, my sons, listen to me And 15do not depart from the words of my mouth.
8 16Keep your way far from her And do not go near the 17door of her house,
9 Or you will give your vigor to others And your years to the cruel one;
10 And strangers will be filled with your strength And your hard-earned goods will go to the house of an alien;
11 And you groan at your final end, When your flesh and your body are consumed;
12 And you say, "How I have 18hated instruction! And my heart 19spurned reproof!
13 "I have not listened to the voice of my 20teachers, Nor inclined my ear to my instructors!
14 "I was almost in utter ruin In the midst of the assembly and congregation."
15 Drink water from your own cistern And fresh water from your own well.
16 Should your 21springs be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets?
17 Let them be yours alone And not for strangers with you.
18 Let your 22fountain be blessed, And 23rejoice in the 24wife of your youth.
19 As a loving 25hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love.
20 For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an 26adulteress And embrace the bosom of a 27foreigner?
21 For the 28ways of a man are before the eyes of the LORD, And He 29watches all his paths.
22 His 30own iniquities will capture the wicked, And he will be held with the cords of his sin.
23 He will 31die for lack of instruction, And in the greatness of his folly he will go astray.

Proverbs 5 Commentary

Chapter 5

Exhortations to wisdom. The evils of licentiousness. (1-14) Remedies against licentiousness, The miserable end of the wicked. (15-23)

Verses 1-14 Solomon cautions all young men, as his children, to abstain from fleshly lusts. Some, by the adulterous woman, here understand idolatry, false doctrine, which tends to lead astray men's minds and manners; but the direct view is to warn against seventh-commandment sins. Often these have been, and still are, Satan's method of drawing men from the worship of God into false religion. Consider how fatal the consequences; how bitter the fruit! Take it any way, it wounds. It leads to the torments of hell. The direct tendency of this sin is to the destruction of body and soul. We must carefully avoid every thing which may be a step towards it. Those who would be kept from harm, must keep out of harm's way. If we thrust ourselves into temptation we mock God when we pray, Lead us not into temptation. How many mischiefs attend this sin! It blasts the reputation; it wastes time; it ruins the estate; it is destructive to health; it will fill the mind with horror. Though thou art merry now, yet sooner or later it will bring sorrow. The convinced sinner reproaches himself, and makes no excuse for his folly. By the frequent acts of sin, the habits of it become rooted and confirmed. By a miracle of mercy true repentance may prevent the dreadful consequences of such sins; but this is not often; far more die as they have lived. What can express the case of the self-ruined sinner in the eternal world, enduring the remorse of his conscience!

Verses 15-23 Lawful marriage is a means God has appointed to keep from these destructive vices. But we are not properly united, except as we attend to God's word, seeking his direction and blessing, and acting with affection. Ever remember, that though secret sins may escape the eyes of our fellow-creatures, yet a man's ways are before the eyes of the Lord, who not only sees, but ponders all his goings. Those who are so foolish as to choose the way of sin, are justly left of God to themselves, to go on in the way to destruction.

Cross References 31

  • 1. Proverbs 4:20
  • 2. Proverbs 22:17
  • 3. Proverbs 3:21
  • 4. Malachi 2:7
  • 5. Proverbs 2:16; Proverbs 5:20; Proverbs 7:5; Proverbs 22:14
  • 6. Song of Songs 4:11
  • 7. Psalms 55:21
  • 8. Ecclesiastes 7:26
  • 9. Psalms 57:4; Hebrews 4:12
  • 10. Proverbs 7:27
  • 11. Proverbs 4:26; Proverbs 5:21
  • 12. 2 Peter 2:14
  • 13. Proverbs 30:20
  • 14. Proverbs 7:24
  • 15. Psalms 119:102
  • 16. Proverbs 7:25
  • 17. Proverbs 9:14
  • 18. Prov 1:7, 22, 29
  • 19. Proverbs 1:25; Proverbs 12:1
  • 20. Proverbs 1:8
  • 21. Proverbs 5:18; Proverbs 9:17; Song of Songs 4:12, 15
  • 22. Proverbs 9:17; Song of Songs 4:12, 15
  • 23. Ecclesiastes 9:9
  • 24. Malachi 2:14
  • 25. Song of Songs 2:9, 17; Song of Songs 4:5; Song of Songs 7:3
  • 26. Proverbs 5:3
  • 27. Proverbs 2:16; Proverbs 6:24; Proverbs 7:5; Proverbs 23:27
  • 28. Job 14:16; Job 31:4; Job 34:21; Psalms 119:168; Proverbs 15:3; Jeremiah 16:17; Jeremiah 32:19; Hosea 7:2; Hebrews 4:13
  • 29. Proverbs 4:26
  • 30. Numbers 32:23; Psalms 7:15; Psalms 9:15; Psalms 40:12; Proverbs 1:31, 32
  • 31. Job 4:21; Job 36:12

Footnotes 7

Chapter Summary

INTRODUCTION TO PROVERBS 5

The general instruction of this chapter is to avoid whoredom, and make use of lawful marriage, and keep to that. It is introduced with an exhortation to attend to wisdom and understanding, Pr 5:1,2; one part of which lies in shunning an adulterous woman; who is described by her flattery, with which she deceives; by the end she brings men to, which is destruction and death; and by the uncertainty of her ways, which cannot be known, Pr 5:3-6. Wherefore men are advised to keep at the utmost distance from her, Pr 5:7,8; lest their honour, strength, wealth, and labours, be given to others, Pr 5:9,10; and repentance and mourning follow, when too late, Pr 5:11-14. And, as a remedy against whoredom, entering into a marriage state is advised to, and a strict regard to that; allegorically expressed by a man's drinking water out of his fountain, and by his wife being as a loving hind and pleasant roe to him, the single object of his affections, Pr 5:15-19. As also the consideration of the divine omniscience is proposed, to deter him from the sin of adultery, Pr 5:20,21; as well as the inevitable ruin wicked men are brought into by it, Pr 5:22,23.

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