With a kiss of love (en pilhmati agaph). As in 1 Corinthians 16:20 . The abuse of this custom led to its confinement to men with men and women with women and to its final abandonment (Apost. Const. ii. 57, 12). That are in Christ (toi en Cristwi). This is the greatest of all secret orders and ties, one that is open to all who take Christ as Lord and Saviour.