
How to Overcome the Fear of Praying in Public
August 26, 2022
It can happen to anyone and maybe it has happened to you. You are sitting in church or in a small group and the time comes to pray. You can feel the leader of the group scanning the attendees because you know they are going to ask someone to pray. On the inside your heart begins to race because you are hoping they don’t ask you. You purposely keep your head down and avoid making any eye contact because you don’t want to give even the slightest impression that you are interested in leading the prayer. The tension continues to mount as the moment of truth draws near because they are about to ask someone. What a great relief you experience because this time they didn’t ask you. You got skipped over, and this was one time where it didn’t matter because thankfully, someone else was chosen to pray. Immediately your anxiety subsides, and you feel as if you have dodged another bullet.
If you have you experienced something like this when you are asked to pray in public, you are not alone. Many people are afraid of praying in front of anyone else. This fear can grip you whether you are praying in front of a group or even just one other person. There can be an inherent pressure that comes with it, and I must admit there have been times when I have felt it.
When I first met my wife, we went out to eat. I asked her to pray for the meal. She got very nervous and declined and asked if I could pray for it instead. I later discovered she felt intimidated to pray in front of me or anyone else for that matter. Over time she has since conquered that intimidation (as I have) and she is comfortable praying in front of a room or with someone else one on one. Trust me, if she can do it so can you. The question is how do you do it?
I want to give you four things to consider which can help you overcome the fear of praying in public.
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