Does Your Spouse Know You Are Thankful for Them? - PLUS Marriage Devotional
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-Offer a back rub at the end of the day.
Express thankfulness according to their love language, and notice how well they receive your gratitude. This might become a new way of communicating for both of you, leading to greater intimacy and appreciation.
Let Your Actions Speak Louder Than Words
When my husband laid our new floors a few years ago, I was extremely grateful to see the old carpet gone. I remember thinking how diligent I would be at keeping them clean and shiny as a way of saying "thanks." Fast-forward a few years, and I see how neglectful I've become. Especially during busy months, the floors aren't swept and mopped near as much as they need to be.
In many ways, our actions speak louder than our words. We can say, "thank you," or we can show how grateful we are. In what area of your marriage can you spring into action, letting your spouse know they're appreciated?
Remember Luke 6:31, when Jesus said, "And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them." (ESV)
Praise Them in Front of Others
If you've ever misspoken and said something embarrassing about your spouse in front of others, you know the terrible feeling of regret. But when you've pointed out their strengths and built them up, it feels really good, doesn't it?
Let your spouse know how thankful you are by praising them in front of others. As the conversation allows, interject positive things such as:
"He is so good with the kids, I never have to worry when he's taking care of them."
"He provides so well for us, and I truly appreciate his hard work."
"He's my best friend, the one I want to spend my time with."
Imagine how good it would feel to hear your spouse say such kind things about you. Giving praise where praise is due is a great way to show gratitude and encourage them to keep going. Don't assume your spouse already knows you're thankful. Find ways to let them know, and make gratitude a daily habit.
Let's Pray: Heavenly Father, please forgive me for the lack of appreciation I've shown for my spouse. They do so much for our family, yet I rarely communicate my gratitude. Remind me to thank them often by looking them in the eye and letting them know just how thankful I am. Show me creative ways to express my appreciation, serving them with love and joy. Slow my pace so that I notice their hard work and sacrifice. I'm truly grateful for the spouse You've given me, and I plan to communicate it more often. In Jesus' holy name, amen.
Application: How will you intentionally show gratitude for your spouse this week?
Challenge: Write a note of appreciation or find a small gift that expresses your heart.
Related: What Are the 5 Love Languages?
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