Trusting God When Life Feels Unfair - Your Nightly Scripture - May 11th

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Trusting God When Life Feels Unfair

Evening Scripture

Psalm 73
Surely God is good to Israel,
     to those who are pure in heart.

But as for me, my feet had almost slipped;
     I had nearly lost my foothold.
For I envied the arrogant
     when I saw the prosperity of the wicked.

They have no struggles;
     their bodies are healthy and strong.
They are free from common human burdens;
     they are not plagued by human ills.
Therefore pride is their necklace;
     they clothe themselves with violence.
From their callous hearts comes iniquity;
     their evil imaginations have no limits.
They scoff, and speak with malice;
     with arrogance they threaten oppression.
Their mouths lay claim to heaven,
     and their tongues take possession of the earth.
Therefore their people turn to them
     and drink up waters in abundance.
They say, “How would God know?
     Does the Most High know anything?”

This is what the wicked are like—
     always free of care, they go on amassing wealth.

Surely in vain I have kept my heart pure
     and have washed my hands in innocence.
All day long I have been afflicted,
     and every morning brings new punishments.

If I had spoken out like that,
     I would have betrayed your children.
When I tried to understand all this,
     it troubled me deeply
till I entered the sanctuary of God;
     then I understood their final destiny.

Surely you place them on slippery ground;
     you cast them down to ruin.
How suddenly are they destroyed,
     completely swept away by terrors!
They are like a dream when one awakes;
     when you arise, Lord,
     you will despise them as fantasies.

When my heart was grieved
     and my spirit embittered,
I was senseless and ignorant;
     I was a brute beast before you.

Yet I am always with you;
     you hold me by my right hand.
You guide me with your counsel,
     and afterward you will take me into glory.
Whom have I in heaven but you?
     And earth has nothing I desire besides you.
My flesh and my heart may fail,
     but God is the strength of my heart
     and my portion forever.

Those who are far from you will perish;
     you destroy all who are unfaithful to you.
But as for me, it is good to be near God.
     I have made the Sovereign Lord my refuge;
     I will tell of all your deeds.

Evening Reflection

There’s something about the end of the day that makes everything feel a little more real and honest. All the things on and in the back of your mind seem to creep their way to the front of the mind when night falls. The distractions fade. The noise quiets. And what’s really been sitting on your heart starts to rise to the surface.

Maybe today you felt the tension of Psalm 73 in real time—watching others thrive while you quietly wrestle. Wondering why things seem easier for them. Questioning timelines. Carrying thoughts you didn’t expect to have. Comparing their life to yours and maybe even comparing God’s love for you versus theirs. And if we are honest with ourselves, we can say it’s just not fair.

What’s so comforting about this psalm is that it doesn’t shame that feeling—it reveals it. The writer admits his feet almost slipped. Not because he stopped loving God, but because he couldn’t make sense of what he was seeing. Maybe that’s where you are tonight.  But the shift in tonight’s Scripture happens in one sacred moment: “till I entered the sanctuary of God…”

Everything began to change when he returned to God’s presence. Because when you step out of comparison and back into connection with God in His presence, your perspective shifts. What once felt unfair and confusing begins to settle and no longer carries the same weight. God’s presence doesn’t always give you the answer, but it gives you peace and clarity that you are in God’s hands and He is in control. It reminds you that your story is not behind, not forgotten, and no less meaningful.

Tonight, you don’t need to figure everything out. You don’t need to measure your life against someone else’s highlight reel or timeline. You don’t need to carry the weight of what feels unfair into tomorrow. You simply get to return to the presence of God. And here, in this quiet space, you can remember: He is holding you right there in His presence. Even if today felt off… You are not off track. You are still being led, still being held, and still deeply cared for.

Evening Prayer

Dear God,
Tonight, I come to You with an honest heart. You saw every moment today—the thoughts I wrestled with, the comparisons that crept in, the quiet questions I didn’t even say out loud. The comparisons, the tears, feeling like others are ahead of me, questioning if I’m doing something wrong. But Lord, thank You for meeting me in it, not with judgment, but with gentleness. Thank you for being here tonight. Please remind me, when I’m feeling like life feels unfair, to remember that You are still good. When I feel like I’m falling behind, remind me that You are still leading me and You have a perfect plan for me on my own perfect timeline. And when my heart starts to compare, draw me back into Your presence—where peace replaces my doubts. Like the psalmist wrote, when my feet feel like they’re slipping, hold me by my right hand. Guide me with Your wisdom, even when I don’t understand the path. Help me trust that what You’re doing in my life is intentional, even if it looks different than what I expected. Tonight, I release what I can’t control.
I release the timelines, the comparisons, and the need to have all the answers. And I choose to rest in this truth: that You are enough and You are working behind the scenes. You have not forgotten me. Calm my thoughts as I lie down. Quiet my mind from overthinking. Fill this space with Your peace so that I can truly rest. Thank you for being the strength I need.
In your name we pray,
Amen.

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Alisha Headley is a writer + speaker who has a desire to meet the everyday woman in her everyday life with biblical truth. Stepping into her true calling, she left the corporate world behind as a former-financial VP to love on her family as a stay-at-home wifey + dog mama, while also being able to pursue her passion as a writer. Healing from a chapter of life consumed with lies she once believed about herself, she is inspired to point women to Christ to experience the freedom + power to overcome those lies with the truth written in God’s word. In her free time, Alisha enjoys road trips around the country, working out so she can eat her favorite foods, and creatively styling her outfits with a craft for fashion. Alisha is a proud wifey and dog mama living in Scottsdale, Arizona.

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