Genesis 29:19

19 "It is far better," said Laban, "that I give her to you than marry her to some outsider. Yes. Stay here with me."

Genesis 29:19 Meaning and Commentary

Genesis 29:19

And Laban said
Deceitfully, as the Targum of Jonathan adds, pretending great respect for Jacob, and that what he had proposed was very agreeable to him, when he meant to impose upon him:

[it is] better that I should give her to thee, than that I should give
her to another man;
by which he not only intimates that he preferred him, a relation, to another man, a stranger; but as if he did not insist upon the servitude for her, but would give her to him; unless he means upon the terms proposed, and so it should seem by what follows:

abide with me:
the term of seven years, and serve me; suggesting, that then he agreed Rachel should be his wife; and so Jacob, a plain hearted man, understood him; but he designed no such thing.

Genesis 29:19 In-Context

17 Leah had nice eyes, but Rachel was stunningly beautiful.
18 And it was Rachel that Jacob loved. So Jacob answered, "I will work for you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel."
19 "It is far better," said Laban, "that I give her to you than marry her to some outsider. Yes. Stay here with me."
20 So Jacob worked seven years for Rachel. But it only seemed like a few days, he loved her so much.
21 Then Jacob said to Laban, "Give me my wife; I've completed what we agreed I'd do. I'm ready to consummate my marriage."
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